Confidence (a state of being, not a feeling) occurs each time someone decides to proceed to the next step with a positive vision of achieving the end goal. Let’s explore my client who was unsure how to engage her leadership team. I helped her pause at key decision points to take inventory of her view of the end goal. When she saw a path forward based on her preparations for the team meeting, she envisioned a successful conversation occurring. Then, when she decided the agenda and saw a good collaboration resulting, she decided to take the next step and engage in preliminary conversations to prep the conversations. You can see where we are going.
So, next time you are feeling worried or unsure, reflect on your decision process and the vision you have for a successful outcome. Your decision process can help you move to a state of confidence.
Some tactics that can help… focus on what you can control or step out of your comfort zone. What tactics would you add that support how your decisions can spur your state of confidence?
Change your mindset to achieve your goals. Inspire excellence… through coaching.
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